People tend to over-think things.
I admit that I might be somebody that has a tendancy to UNDER-think things, but I came to the realization last night that people often OVER-think things.
I am not advocating that things shouldn't be planned or well thought out, but there is a point at which the marginal benefit of additional brainpower only decreases the final product. And I think people often spend some much time THINKING, that as they approach that over-thinking point - they completely miss it.
Which comes down to learning point #2: You have to know when to say when.
This is what bothers me about type A personalities. They NEVER know when to say when because they are so high strung all the time.
Also, type A personalites are not fun for me to be around because they bring the SAME energy to every interaction you have with them. Going into a meeting with a type A is like watching a bad tv show over and over... you know what exactly is going to happen at the end and you're not going to like it one bit.
Of course, I wanted to title this post "Women tend to over-think" things... but perhaps we can't and shouldn't generalize. Or should we?
Wednesday, February 18, 2009
Tuesday, February 17, 2009
Doubt & Early Oscar Picks...
I can scratch Doubt off my list. Good movie - again set in the 1960's and this movie has some serious actors in it. Amy Adams, Meryl Streep and Phillip Seymore-Hoffman.
Doubt is the story of a Catholic school/church in what I believe is New York City. Pretty much the whole movie takes place in and around this school. Now what I found really interesting is the school itself. Whatever school they actually used was really old and creeky, which I think set the mood for the crazy happenings that go down through the second half of the movie.
As with most "good" movies - this one doesn't really give up anything huge until the very end... much of what happens is very subtle and requires you to pay close attention. I almost stopped it with a few minutes left because I was tired and ended up being totally shocked by the end.
Also, here are some thoughts on what movies/people might win. You can see the full list of nominees on the official site.
Best Actor: Sean Penn
Best Supporting Actor: Heath Ledger
Best Actress: Anne Hathaway (dark horse)
Best Supporting Actress: This is a tough category. I have seen all these movies and Amy Adams is really good in Doubt and the scene with Viola Davis in that movie is insane and Penelope Cruz is hawt and so is Marisa Tomei. I'm going to have to settle on Taraji P. Henson for Benji's Button, er, I mean Benjamin Button.
Directing: Milk
Best Picture: Slumdog Millionaire
... and I think the guy who yelled out "whatever" during the proposal scene in "He's just not that into you" deservers the -best audience member in a supporting role award - for sure.
But seriously, it's hard to say who's going to win because although I think Hollywood produces more garbage year after year, the top end of the spectrum just keeps getting better and better. I really believe that all of the big films this year are all really good. Having watched them all in such a short time frame, I think they blend together a bit because I don't have time to really think about, or digest, what I have just seen.
Doubt is the story of a Catholic school/church in what I believe is New York City. Pretty much the whole movie takes place in and around this school. Now what I found really interesting is the school itself. Whatever school they actually used was really old and creeky, which I think set the mood for the crazy happenings that go down through the second half of the movie.
As with most "good" movies - this one doesn't really give up anything huge until the very end... much of what happens is very subtle and requires you to pay close attention. I almost stopped it with a few minutes left because I was tired and ended up being totally shocked by the end.
Also, here are some thoughts on what movies/people might win. You can see the full list of nominees on the official site.
Best Actor: Sean Penn
Best Supporting Actor: Heath Ledger
Best Actress: Anne Hathaway (dark horse)
Best Supporting Actress: This is a tough category. I have seen all these movies and Amy Adams is really good in Doubt and the scene with Viola Davis in that movie is insane and Penelope Cruz is hawt and so is Marisa Tomei. I'm going to have to settle on Taraji P. Henson for Benji's Button, er, I mean Benjamin Button.
Directing: Milk
Best Picture: Slumdog Millionaire
... and I think the guy who yelled out "whatever" during the proposal scene in "He's just not that into you" deservers the -best audience member in a supporting role award - for sure.
But seriously, it's hard to say who's going to win because although I think Hollywood produces more garbage year after year, the top end of the spectrum just keeps getting better and better. I really believe that all of the big films this year are all really good. Having watched them all in such a short time frame, I think they blend together a bit because I don't have time to really think about, or digest, what I have just seen.
Sunday, February 15, 2009
Oscar Movie Update
I saw a few more Oscar movies this week:
Rachel Getting Married
Anne Hathaway is nominated for best actress for this movie and I think it's a shame it didn't get a best picture nomination.
The movie is the story of Anne's character's sister (Rachel) getting married. It also happens to be same weekend that Rachel gets out of a 9 month stint in rehab. I won't reveal why she's there as it comes out gradually over the course of the movie. The last half of the movie is the wedding itself and it appears to be shot like a real wedding. There is all kinds of footage shot on handhelds and it's hard to tell who is acting or who isn't. I kept thinking it was a real wedding being filmed. Definently worth watching.
Curious Case of Benjamin Button
Brad Pitt is too good looking. And so is Kate Blanchett. Those two together are also way more good looking than any couple should. This movie will most likely win for best make-up - hands down.
I had a hard time getting into the movie because I felt it had so much Brad Pitt in it. The architecture.... the clothes... the motorbikes... That said, definently a great watch and highly recommended.
Up Next
Next up for me is going to be Doubt and The Reader.
Rachel Getting Married
Anne Hathaway is nominated for best actress for this movie and I think it's a shame it didn't get a best picture nomination.
The movie is the story of Anne's character's sister (Rachel) getting married. It also happens to be same weekend that Rachel gets out of a 9 month stint in rehab. I won't reveal why she's there as it comes out gradually over the course of the movie. The last half of the movie is the wedding itself and it appears to be shot like a real wedding. There is all kinds of footage shot on handhelds and it's hard to tell who is acting or who isn't. I kept thinking it was a real wedding being filmed. Definently worth watching.
Curious Case of Benjamin Button
Brad Pitt is too good looking. And so is Kate Blanchett. Those two together are also way more good looking than any couple should. This movie will most likely win for best make-up - hands down.
I had a hard time getting into the movie because I felt it had so much Brad Pitt in it. The architecture.... the clothes... the motorbikes... That said, definently a great watch and highly recommended.
Up Next
Next up for me is going to be Doubt and The Reader.
Thursday, February 12, 2009
Recessionary Times and Michael Phelps, et al.
Unless you have been living under a rock for the past year you may have noticed that we are in a recession. By all accounts, this is one of the worst in modern history.
The bad news is that it is going to probably get much worst through the rest of 2009. Soon the consumer credit market is going to fall as people have been spending on credit for months. Then the real sh*t is going to hit the fan.
In the middle of all this, pictures surfaced of the golden boy Michael Phelps smoking from a bong. This was all going down at the same time that Jessica Simpson put on a few pounds. The sheer magnitude of the Phelps bong and Jessica's figure overtook the news for close to a week.
It would seem to me that there is a correlation of -1 between our appetite for stupid news and the economy. As one goes up, the other goes down.
So what else can we learn from all of this:
Just kidding.
But I think we could all use a good laugh. After all, it's like getting stuck in an elevator with strangers. Somebody cracks a joke, we all laugh and wait for the elevator to start working again.
I just hope they stop playing this terrible music.
The bad news is that it is going to probably get much worst through the rest of 2009. Soon the consumer credit market is going to fall as people have been spending on credit for months. Then the real sh*t is going to hit the fan.
In the middle of all this, pictures surfaced of the golden boy Michael Phelps smoking from a bong. This was all going down at the same time that Jessica Simpson put on a few pounds. The sheer magnitude of the Phelps bong and Jessica's figure overtook the news for close to a week.
It would seem to me that there is a correlation of -1 between our appetite for stupid news and the economy. As one goes up, the other goes down.
So what else can we learn from all of this:
- The work (bad work) of few propped up, and in many cases created, a situation where everything that was accomplished in was wiped out in a matter of minutes. Those people with "increased sales X percent in two years" on their resume don't look as impressive anymore. Sure, it easy to grow you company and business when demand is easy to get. You just have to capture value and not create it.
- Be conservative in the good times so that you can spend in the bad times. Imagine if you had been putting away all of your money in the last 5 years. Retailers are practically given things away and not just small items. I heard anyone buying a house might get a 25k (that's right - 25,000) tax credit. Cars are being marked at barely above costs.. and that HDTV you wanted and paid 3k for last year.... worth $800!
- Sh*t Happens. Sure, this was is a terrible situation. People got greedy and even as the house of cards was coming down - they were spending 1.2 MILLION to upgrade their office. But people are greedy and they always will be. Money leads to more money and it always will. Wall Street will always make big bonuses and the "man" will always stick it to you. Embrace this and understand how to make it work for you. Plan for it. Pick yourself up and get back in the game.
Just kidding.
But I think we could all use a good laugh. After all, it's like getting stuck in an elevator with strangers. Somebody cracks a joke, we all laugh and wait for the elevator to start working again.
I just hope they stop playing this terrible music.
Tuesday, February 10, 2009
I spent my weekend...
In class! And I liked it!
I had my first experience with the part-time program's weekend classes. Classes went from 5pm to 9pm on Friday night, then all day on Saturday and Sunday. Friday night and Sunday were International Trading Environment and Saturday was Leadership.
Although I have been part-time since the summer, I only took evening classes in the fall. Evening classes are held at the Point Grey campus and often contain a mix of both part-time and full-time students and there tends to be more full-time than part-time because only PT students who want to drive to campus during week take those classes.
The weekend classes are held at the Robson Square campus downtown, which is a nice change - even if the place is like a bunker.
The material tends to move pretty quickly but I think the quality of the experience is much better in the sense that the other students participate in class and seem to be prepared. Plus, when it comes time to get group work done - there is no sitting around waiting for somebody to take the lead. We had a group meeting that was so fast, I blinked and almost missed it.
No classes for the next few weekends, just homework and prep for the next instances. Now I have to go home and get some laundry done. I used to do my laundry on Sunday nights but I switched my time recently.
I had my first experience with the part-time program's weekend classes. Classes went from 5pm to 9pm on Friday night, then all day on Saturday and Sunday. Friday night and Sunday were International Trading Environment and Saturday was Leadership.
Although I have been part-time since the summer, I only took evening classes in the fall. Evening classes are held at the Point Grey campus and often contain a mix of both part-time and full-time students and there tends to be more full-time than part-time because only PT students who want to drive to campus during week take those classes.
The weekend classes are held at the Robson Square campus downtown, which is a nice change - even if the place is like a bunker.
The material tends to move pretty quickly but I think the quality of the experience is much better in the sense that the other students participate in class and seem to be prepared. Plus, when it comes time to get group work done - there is no sitting around waiting for somebody to take the lead. We had a group meeting that was so fast, I blinked and almost missed it.
No classes for the next few weekends, just homework and prep for the next instances. Now I have to go home and get some laundry done. I used to do my laundry on Sunday nights but I switched my time recently.
Sunday, February 8, 2009
"I'm Harvey Milk, and I want to recruit you"
Shortly after my last post about Oscar films, I realized I forgot to mention Milk.
Well, I watched it last night and thought it was REALLY good. It's hard to say what Ocscars it will win. I think it could be in the running for Best Picture, Best Director and Best Actor.
Sean Penn plays Harvey Milk, the first openly gay elected official in San Francisco in the last 1970's. The film mixes real footage with recreated scenes so well, it's hard to tell the difference between the two. Of course, Sean Penn who I believe is one of our generation's best actors with Robert Downey Jr, delivers a huge performance. He is able to actually "become" a character like almost nobody else.
Again, as with most other great Oscar films, the supporting cast delivers big here too. James Franco and Emile Hirsch are both great, as is Josh Brolin.
The movie is also over two hours but is so well told, it never really drags.
This movie is so good on so many levels, it's hard to nail down what awards it will come home with and both Penn and Van Zant are well loved by the Academy.
Well, I watched it last night and thought it was REALLY good. It's hard to say what Ocscars it will win. I think it could be in the running for Best Picture, Best Director and Best Actor.
Sean Penn plays Harvey Milk, the first openly gay elected official in San Francisco in the last 1970's. The film mixes real footage with recreated scenes so well, it's hard to tell the difference between the two. Of course, Sean Penn who I believe is one of our generation's best actors with Robert Downey Jr, delivers a huge performance. He is able to actually "become" a character like almost nobody else.
Again, as with most other great Oscar films, the supporting cast delivers big here too. James Franco and Emile Hirsch are both great, as is Josh Brolin.
The movie is also over two hours but is so well told, it never really drags.
This movie is so good on so many levels, it's hard to nail down what awards it will come home with and both Penn and Van Zant are well loved by the Academy.
Thursday, February 5, 2009
Oscar Movies
So, I have been slowly making my way through this year's Oscar nominees.
Here are a few I have seen so far. I find it hard to talk about the best picture nominees sometimes because they are often all so good in so many ways and generally tend to click on all levels. Warning: most of the movies are in the two hour range, so be warned.
The Wrestler: Can be a bit slow at times but this movie is all about the things left unsaid and the small details. Mickey is great in a role that was pretty much made for him but he really takes the character on. The action is fierce and hard to watch. Evan Rachel Wood is only in three scenes but really delivers, and is really cute. This movie is a must for any wrestling fan, or former wrestling fan but I think the story would appeal to anyone who has had their ups and down.
Revolutionary Road: Saw this one last night. The definition of a movie that is a slow burn. Since watching Mad Men, I have come to see the time between 1955 (when this movie is set) and the early 1960s as a really interesting time when society was changing in many profound ways. Technology was really starting to play into everyones lives (TV, Computers, etc) and class/sex barriers were starting to weaken. This makes for an incredible dramatic backdrop in a movie that is as much about what is NOT said as what is. Revolutionary Road is really about what goes on inside someone's head that they don't talk about. The last half hour is incredible and Leo and Kate both deliver what I would consider some of the best performances I have ever seen. Plus, the supporting cast delivers great performances from top to bottom. Not sure what it will win but look for some acting awards out of it. Maybe director... but really this movie will probably fly under the radar.
Slumdog Millionaire: I have to admit that I didn't understand this movie before I saw it.... "what, some guy wins a quiz show" but once I realized it was a story told THROUGH the questions in the game show I was totally hooked. Oddly enough it has many themes in common with Revolutionary Road in the sense that class/sex barriers are all over the place but a great story told in a unique way and definently a must watch. This will win awards, probably best picture or director... maybe screenplay.
I have seen some of the other movies nominated in other categories but soon I'm going to check out The Reader and I might see Benjamin Button but honestly, I'm not dying to see BP in another movie... I love(d) Forrest Gump and I'm not sure I'm ready for another tale that spans a lifetime....
Here are a few I have seen so far. I find it hard to talk about the best picture nominees sometimes because they are often all so good in so many ways and generally tend to click on all levels. Warning: most of the movies are in the two hour range, so be warned.
The Wrestler: Can be a bit slow at times but this movie is all about the things left unsaid and the small details. Mickey is great in a role that was pretty much made for him but he really takes the character on. The action is fierce and hard to watch. Evan Rachel Wood is only in three scenes but really delivers, and is really cute. This movie is a must for any wrestling fan, or former wrestling fan but I think the story would appeal to anyone who has had their ups and down.
Revolutionary Road: Saw this one last night. The definition of a movie that is a slow burn. Since watching Mad Men, I have come to see the time between 1955 (when this movie is set) and the early 1960s as a really interesting time when society was changing in many profound ways. Technology was really starting to play into everyones lives (TV, Computers, etc) and class/sex barriers were starting to weaken. This makes for an incredible dramatic backdrop in a movie that is as much about what is NOT said as what is. Revolutionary Road is really about what goes on inside someone's head that they don't talk about. The last half hour is incredible and Leo and Kate both deliver what I would consider some of the best performances I have ever seen. Plus, the supporting cast delivers great performances from top to bottom. Not sure what it will win but look for some acting awards out of it. Maybe director... but really this movie will probably fly under the radar.
Slumdog Millionaire: I have to admit that I didn't understand this movie before I saw it.... "what, some guy wins a quiz show" but once I realized it was a story told THROUGH the questions in the game show I was totally hooked. Oddly enough it has many themes in common with Revolutionary Road in the sense that class/sex barriers are all over the place but a great story told in a unique way and definently a must watch. This will win awards, probably best picture or director... maybe screenplay.
I have seen some of the other movies nominated in other categories but soon I'm going to check out The Reader and I might see Benjamin Button but honestly, I'm not dying to see BP in another movie... I love(d) Forrest Gump and I'm not sure I'm ready for another tale that spans a lifetime....
Tuesday, February 3, 2009
#71 with a bullet
I just found out that my MBA program moved up 21 spots in the Financial Times worldwide rankings to #71. This is pretty impressive.
Here is the link to the full listings.
York, UofT and Western are all clustered in the upper 40s.
Here is the link to the full listings.
York, UofT and Western are all clustered in the upper 40s.
Thursday, January 29, 2009
I can't sleep
I wouldn't normally post this late but I can't sleep. This is despite the fact I was up at 5:30am to to the gym before going to work. Work was nuts (big release of product or should I say start of major marketing activities) and then I went to an undergrad marketing club event, so I didn't even get home until after 9.
I suppose that part of the reason is that I am just nervous/anxious about getting our new product out there. It's going to a very large number of people and communications of that magnitude have always made me nervous because if something goes wrong, it goes wrong huge.
The other reason is that I am mad at myself for being so wimpy lately. I can't believe that I have let people walk all over me in certain situations (work). There are always going to be people who see problems instead of solutions and I can't believe I let them get to me.
2007 was about getting into an mba program. 2008 was about finishing the mba but more importantly getting a job. And 2009 is supposed to be about doing the best I can at that job... yet I started off the year on a bad foot and I just realized it today.
I need to get to bed and get some rest. I have some work to do - scratch that -
I have some ass to kick tomorrow.
Good night.
I suppose that part of the reason is that I am just nervous/anxious about getting our new product out there. It's going to a very large number of people and communications of that magnitude have always made me nervous because if something goes wrong, it goes wrong huge.
The other reason is that I am mad at myself for being so wimpy lately. I can't believe that I have let people walk all over me in certain situations (work). There are always going to be people who see problems instead of solutions and I can't believe I let them get to me.
2007 was about getting into an mba program. 2008 was about finishing the mba but more importantly getting a job. And 2009 is supposed to be about doing the best I can at that job... yet I started off the year on a bad foot and I just realized it today.
I need to get to bed and get some rest. I have some work to do - scratch that -
I have some ass to kick tomorrow.
Good night.
Monday, January 19, 2009
I'm back

Happy New Year Everyone!
While at home, I was able to see some friends and spend some time relaxing in front of the TV. I also saw the Sens play the Dallas Stars. The Sens played terrible but still won. I wasn't too worried though because I knew I had another game coming up soon.... more about that in a bit.

I came back to Vancouver for a few days before heading down to San Francisco for New Years and my birthday. First things first: San Francisco is an amazing city. I had been before, in October 06, when my brother got married... so I have seen the city before. This time, I was with friends that live there, so I was able to get a more insider view of things. San Fran is great because I think it has everything. Great culture, great food, great people.... it is really a city that has everything.
It's been a while since I have posted anything so I figured I would spend a few minutes updating everyone on what I have been up to for the last month.
The short answer: having a good time and enjoying my freedom.
The long answer: Work, travel and play.
For those of you who are completely unaware, there has been a few huge snowstorms across Canada over the past month. Vancouver, normally warm this time of year (look at the temp on the right side of my page) it was really cold through most of December. The good news is that we got lots of snow in December which made for some pretty heavy Christmas spirit.
Every year, the Richmond firefighters and their community put on a display of xmas lights in Stanley Park. I had never been before but I went this year, just before Christmas. It was amazing with the snow. Above is a picture I took on my phone.
Every year, the Richmond firefighters and their community put on a display of xmas lights in Stanley Park. I had never been before but I went this year, just before Christmas. It was amazing with the snow. Above is a picture I took on my phone.
Then, I flew back to Ottawa from the 20th to the 28th.
This was fun times as well. Lots of snow (and cold weather around Ottawa) but I wasn't used to being in such cold weather so I froze most of the time. I did, however, get to see my niece and nephew, who were kind enough to pose for this photo. That's Ella on the left and Tate on the right. Guess which set of parents are American??
While at home, I was able to see some friends and spend some time relaxing in front of the TV. I also saw the Sens play the Dallas Stars. The Sens played terrible but still won. I wasn't too worried though because I knew I had another game coming up soon.... more about that in a bit.Also while I was home, I saw the family dog - Riggley. Unfortunately, we had to put him down shortly after I left but he was 16.5 years old and lived a fantastic life - which is the only reason I am not overly sad about his passing. Not many dogs have spent the winter in Europe (twice) nor have they had the chance to live that long so I think we were really lucky to have him. RIP Riggs. Here he is, doing what he loved best.
I came back to Vancouver for a few days before heading down to San Francisco for New Years and my birthday. First things first: San Francisco is an amazing city. I had been before, in October 06, when my brother got married... so I have seen the city before. This time, I was with friends that live there, so I was able to get a more insider view of things. San Fran is great because I think it has everything. Great culture, great food, great people.... it is really a city that has everything.
I can't wait to go back.
Anyways, I did celebrate my 33rd birthday down there and it was a great time. Many thanks to Paul and his family for the hospitality.
I had a great vacation but now I am happy to be back at work. The way everything fell this year mean that I didn't have a full week at work for a while... and I would prefer to just work and get things done. Lots of amazing things happening at work too.
We have a few products in the pipeline so lots of great marketing to get done. I start school again soon as well. I have three classes to finish and I will do them on weekends between February and start of May. Shouldn't be too bad. At least I will have my nights free and I am looking forward to learning some more things before I finish.
Anyways, sorry it takes me so long to update... now that I have done a "data dump" I will post smaller things more often.
Cheers. D.
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